Are We Living?

Most people aren’t living. They react to life. I thought about this and knew I wasn’t living much, either. I was reacting to life and allowing the past to infiltrate my present, repeatedly causing me the same damn pain! Why would I or anyone do that? For me, and maybe for others, too, I’ve been […]

What Eva!

Recently, I’ve adopted this mindset of what eva. Yes, it’s whatever spelled differently for effect. It’s how the sassy girls say it. And even though I’m not sassy, I can use it too. So, what eva! The “what eva” mindset is when you don’t let things get to you or bring you down.  Watching the news […]

Higamaroo

Higamaroo is a term I came up with to describe random events that distract me from what I intend to do. For example, I say, “I’m going to write on my blog.” Great, right? Well, I see something which makes me think of something else, and then I’m doing that thing instead of the original […]

Are You a Bully?

People are bullies for the simple reason they do not want to get hurt again. They say or do things to hurt another person (most times without thinking it through), so they don’t have a chance of getting hurt. Think about it. Bullies were once hurt, and it doesn’t feel good to them. They couldn’t […]

Are You Happy?

I was asked the question, “Are you happy?” and I replied, “Of course, I am!” I took a second and replied again, “I might not be too happy with my job at the moment but I’m still happy.”  No, that didn’t fly either. So how do I know I’m happy if I’m not happy with […]