Everything Heals

Hi. I wish you a good mood. Today I got inspired by something my guy said about how everything heals. We had another beautiful conversation about philosophical stuff (which I love if you can’t tell already), and he said, “Everything in life, emotional or physical, can heal in time with care.” It made me think […]

There’s a Little Elf In All of Us

I’m funny. No, seriously, I’m a funny person. I may come off as serious and deep, which I am, but I’m also a funny character. I’ve made funny comments to people, like a cashier, for example, who either didn’t get my humor or didn’t compute it because they were off somewhere else in their head. […]

What If You Could Be Calmer?

Two words have caused me great anxiety: what if? What if there’s too much traffic? What if the water heater warranty expires? What if I take this job and it doesn’t work out? On and on and on. But I never thought that I could use the words what if for positive thinking too, like […]

Are We Living?

Most people aren’t living. They react to life. I thought about this and knew I wasn’t living much, either. I was reacting to life and allowing the past to infiltrate my present, repeatedly causing me the same damn pain! Why would I or anyone do that? For me, and maybe for others, too, I’ve been […]

What Eva!

Recently, I’ve adopted this mindset of what eva. Yes, it’s whatever spelled differently for effect. It’s how the sassy girls say it. And even though I’m not sassy, I can use it too. So, what eva! The “what eva” mindset is when you don’t let things get to you or bring you down.  Watching the news […]

Higamaroo

Higamaroo is a term I came up with to describe random events that distract me from what I intend to do. For example, I say, “I’m going to write on my blog.” Great, right? Well, I see something which makes me think of something else, and then I’m doing that thing instead of the original […]

Are You a Bully?

People are bullies for the simple reason they do not want to get hurt again. They say or do things to hurt another person (most times without thinking it through), so they don’t have a chance of getting hurt. Think about it. Bullies were once hurt, and it doesn’t feel good to them. They couldn’t […]

Are You Happy?

I was asked the question, “Are you happy?” and I replied, “Of course, I am!” I took a second and replied again, “I might not be too happy with my job at the moment but I’m still happy.”  No, that didn’t fly either. So how do I know I’m happy if I’m not happy with […]