What Would You Do?

Yesterday, I was in a convenience store and heard a customer ask the young male cashier, “How’s it goin’?” The cashier responded in a mundane voice, “Ah, ya know, livin’ the dream.”   I’ve heard that expression before, and I never liked it. Doesn’t it imply that you’re not happy with your life? What about […]

I Was Robbed!

I rode my bike to my daughter’s house and locked it up with a Kryptonite Keeper lock to her front porch railing. She has the white vinyl 4×4 posts that made it tricky to put the lock around my bike frame. As I was doing that, my daughter came out and told me I didn’t […]

The Secret We Hold

Did you ever notice when you are around a person or doing something, and you get a feeling that doesn’t feel right? You don’t know why it’s happening, but you blame chemistry for the interaction with that person or fear. And that’s pretty much as far as it goes, right? At least, that’s the way […]

What You Talkin’ ‘Bout?

I haven’t seen the television show Different Strokes in many years, but the re-runs are on now, so I watched it to see if it was still funny, like I remembered. It is. That little Arnold character’s saying, “What you talkin’ ’bout Willis?” is hysterical.  It gave me the idea for this blog. When Arnold […]

To Belong

Is the reason why we’re here to belong? We want to belong with someone else in a relationship*. Belong to a career. Belong to a group, organization, church, whatever. Our basic need is to belong. Social media makes our youth want to belong to the group of social media superstars getting boatloads of money, fame, […]

Adjust Your Feelings

I heard, “It’s easier to be angry than it is to be sad,” from little Adam in The Adam Project movie, and I thought about it. It seems to be accurate, but why? I had to delve into that topic to understand it better, so here we go. Look back throughout your life and see if […]

Culture Shift

There has been a culture shift in the last six or seven years, not in a good sense. Our country used to be one of the most powerful countries in the world. People worldwide wanted to come here because it seemed like a better place to live. Well, the truth is, our country has changed, […]