The Secret We Hold

Did you ever notice when you are around a person or doing something, and you get a feeling that doesn’t feel right? You don’t know why it’s happening, but you blame chemistry for the interaction with that person or fear. And that’s pretty much as far as it goes, right? At least, that’s the way […]

What You Talkin’ ‘Bout?

I haven’t seen the television show Different Strokes in many years, but the re-runs are on now, so I watched it to see if it was still funny, like I remembered. It is. That little Arnold character’s saying, “What you talkin’ ’bout Willis?” is hysterical.  It gave me the idea for this blog. When Arnold […]

To Belong

Is the reason why we’re here to belong? We want to belong with someone else in a relationship*. Belong to a career. Belong to a group, organization, church, whatever. Our basic need is to belong. Social media makes our youth want to belong to the group of social media superstars getting boatloads of money, fame, […]

Adjust Your Feelings

I heard, “It’s easier to be angry than it is to be sad,” from little Adam in The Adam Project movie, and I thought about it. It seems to be accurate, but why? I had to delve into that topic to understand it better, so here we go. Look back throughout your life and see if […]

Culture Shift

There has been a culture shift in the last six or seven years, not in a good sense. Our country used to be one of the most powerful countries in the world. People worldwide wanted to come here because it seemed like a better place to live. Well, the truth is, our country has changed, […]

Are You Settling?

When we settle for something in our lives, whether that’s a relationship, a job, or a friend, we’re telling ourselves that we don’t deserve anything better. What a sad state of affairs. Let’s find a way to immediately wipe those insecure and self-defeating thoughts out of our heads! It’s not a  suggestion. This is real […]

Have a Good Sleep

Me and sleep have this weird relationship. Some nights I can fall asleep fast and sleep for hours before mother nature calls. Then I get back into bed, my mind starts going, and I cannot sleep. This phenomenon usually happens around 3:00 a.m. Sometimes at 3:33 a.m., which makes it weirder. (I wrote a song […]

I Don’t Get It

I thought I’d mix it up and write about some things I just don’t get.  See if you agree. I don’t get how people could walk across the street without ever looking and, what, believe they are superheroes that can go through a 3,000 lb. vehicle coming at them? Do we have to blame Marvel […]